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Lead From Your Primary Aim

September 28th, 2009 in Uncategorized comment No Comments »

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Over lunch I read three disperate things and somehow decided they were all connected (or that if they weren’t, I was going to find a way to connect them!).  Aim…Aim is the common theme I see.  And the three things I read are:

1)      Chapter 12 of Michael’s Gerber’s The E Myth Revisited (E stand for entrepreneur) outlining the importance of  “your primary aim”

Gerber insists that before considering building a business, we must ask ourselves these questions:  What do I value most?  What kind of life do I want? What do I want my life to feel like? Who do I wish to be there?  Great people have a vision for their lives and they work “on” it each and every day. Like Gerber, I am a firm believer that one’s “primary aim” is the vision necessary to bring a business to life and one’s life to the business. I guide my coaching clients to develop their primary aim/vision.  I have one too. I call it into question often. It frustrates me to no end sometimes when I don’t know how to live it. Nonetheless, I am happy to have it be my guide.

2)      An announcement for a new book my coach colleague Lynn Harris has authored called Unwritten Rules: What Women Need To Know About Leading In Today’s Organizations;

While I doubt Lynn’s books follow the same tack as Gerber’s given the different focus, I am betting that the leaders she interviewed had unfailingly articulated their aims to become women leaders long before they became women leaders. I am betting their aims were clear about what leadership would look like, taste like and feel like to lead long before they were in the actual positions they now hold.

3)      A short blog post called The biggest spiritual challenge of your life is opening a business.

Perhaps this one is a bit of an outlier.  The way I see it though, it is precisely in the doing of business ownership/ leadership and in being a business owner/ leader that one is faced with huge spiritual challenges that send us reeling from time to time.  Many of the challenges are practical.  Some are existential. The true leader will go to the hard places to find answers.   The true leader will frequently sharpen his/ her aim. 

Carlos Castenada (as quoted by Gerber) said this,

The difference between a warrior and an ordinary man [woman] is that a warrior sees everything as a challenge, while an ordinary man sees everything as either a blessing or a curse.   

Be the warrior.  Lead from your aim.

Risk/Reward: The Entrepreneur's R&R: The Little Red Riding Hood of Cupcakes

September 24th, 2009 in Uncategorized comment 1 Comment »

Citron & Cerise

Citron & Cerise

This a.m. I sat at Cafe Momus in Old Montreal and enjoyed one of the best cupcakes of my life. It was creamy and chocolaty and just the right texture and consistency.  Across the table from me was Nadine Spicer, the woman responsible.  She owns Les Cupcakes du Chaperon Rouge  (Little Red Riding Hood Cupcakes) .  Her cupcakes are made with fresh ingredients, precision, creativity and love.

Immediately I liked this woman. Her cupcake business, which she started 1.5 years ago, was inspired by her grandmother with whom she used to bake. Her grandmother died three years ago and the cupcake business idea was born after. 

Nadine’s story shares many parallels with Michael Gerber’s fictional character Sarah who runs a pie shop.  In his famous book The E Myth Revisited (E is for Entrepreneur), Michael encounters Sarah when her business where she is up to her eyeballs baking pies because she hasn’t yet designed the business to be a “mature business” in which she doesn’t have to be the chief pie maker, entrepreneur and manager all at the same time.   At the moment, Nadine is the chief cupcake maker, marketer and business manager.

Nadine has grown incredibly as a person during her first years in business. She has become a skilled networker who can speak proudly of her business and her product. She’s had success securing corporate clients who love her cupcakes for events and she has become a regular host of a cupcake workshops at Ateliers et Saveurs, a cooking school in Old Montreal.  I note that while her next workshop is already sold out, there were 5 spaces left for September 27th when I looked! She also does cupcake parties for kids and adults.

Her biggest flop and her biggest lessons came from baking 30 dozen cupcakes to sell at a sampling event and selling only two dozen.  She felt devasted at the time but learned a great deal.

I learned that people don’t buy a dozen premium cupcakes for dinner that night just because they had a bite.   Tasting can lead to orders but it’s not necessarily immediate as premium cupcakes are for special occasions.  Anytime I do sampling going forward, it will strictly be sampling and I will take orders.

What keeps her up at night is cash flow and how to wow her clients (all her cupcakes are original designs and she often creates special recipes and decorations depending on client need).  And what’s been harder than she ever imagined is how much time everything takes to accomplish.

When I asked her what she feels she needs most she said that beyond money she feels she needs an advisor or coach to help her put everything together.  She knows her product inside out and she knows what her clients want.  Now she just needs to take it to the next level. 

My recipe for Nadine is straightforward:

  • Get really clear on her vision going forward
  • Put everything she knows about her business on paper in the form of a business plan that will take her to the next level;
  • Focus on one niche (and at most two) to build Les Cupcakes du Chaperon Rouge;
  • Take time every week to strategize, initially perhaps with the help of a coach or business advisor; she could consider group coaching if her budget doesn’t allow for one-on-one coaching right now
  • Find more help with baking and decorating to free up her time to work “on the business” instead of “in the business” to the extent that she does
  • Continue to create cupcake masterpieces and become known as “the” cupcake woman to ensure that many more people get to enjoy the delight I had this morning
Au chocolat

Au chocolat

I end with Les Cupcakes’ tagline: Grand-maman les aurait adorés, si le loup ne l’avait pas mangée (Translation: Grandmother would have loved them if the wolf hadn’t eaten them!!).  May the Little Red Riding Hood of Cupcakes ride on!

Choosing and Using the Right Coach

September 21st, 2009 in Uncategorized comment No Comments »

This article was written by Peggy Grall, executive coach and author of Just Change It.  The article was shared with me by Corry Robertson, a performance leadership coach who is participating in our upcoming Coach Buffet on Oct 15th in Montreal and November 17th in Toronto.

Choosing a coach is a lot like shopping for shoes, and can be almost as frustrating. You start out with an idea of what you want; pick a few stores, and the hunt begins. It’s relatively easy to tell the ones you don’t want, that becomes apparent as soon as you slip them on. But finding the perfect fit is important. 

 So, with the legions of coaches out there, how do you choose the right one for you? Most coaches offer 15 – 30 minute complementary sessions to help you both decide if it is a fit. Here are some factors to consider:

Chemistry: Coaching is like dating, there has to be chemistry. Oh, not the breathless variety, but the coach and coachee have to like, respect, value and be energized by each other. Chemistry also speaks to personal style. Some coaches hail from the ‘kick-butt’ school of coaching, while others have a more relaxed, ‘Zen’ quality about them.

Part of your initial conversation is about getting to know each other’s approach and style; look at the pace in the conversation, do you feel ‘heard’ and does this coach having something to offer you?

Credentials:  Not everyone who calls himself or herself a coach, is a coach.  Coaching has gained popularity as a tool for achieving stretch goals, both personally and professionally, and the need for coaches to be well-trained is taking centre stage.

Find out the training and background of your prospective coach. Ask if the coach is certified through the International Coaching Federation and find out what other academic qualifications the person brings to the coaching.

Clarity:  Find out if the coach has coached other clients like you.  Ask about their experiences with former clients.  You can also ask for references or testimonials; items which a professional coach should happily supply.

A coach is not a counselor or a consultant. This is an important distinction. Knowing the type of support you can expect will eliminate confusion and/or disappointment down the road for both of you.

Charges: Of course, no professional engagement is complete until the money question has been settled.  Coaches offer their services in all sorts of creative ways; you can hire a coach by the hour or session, the week or month or even by the project.

For example, you could sign up for  ‘just in time’ coaching services; that’s when a retainer is paid and you call the coach for brief, laser-like, mini-sessions.

Contract: Be prepared to sign a contract with your coach in which you will determine what your goals are, what you want to achieve through the collaboration and what success will look like to you.

How do you make the best use of their services once you find a coach?  Be clear on what you want to achieve and use the time together strategically. Throughout the sessions together, you will determine the agenda and when you have reached a goal or are satisfied with your progress, you can call the shots and take a breather.

Having a great coach in your corner is the best insurance for success I can think of, and there are coaches with a variety of backgrounds and experiences.  If you’re in the market for a coach, take your time, ask questions and then give it all you’ve got!

Risk/Reward: The Entrepreneur's R&R-Trois Crayons…Cards That Make a Difference

September 18th, 2009 in Uncategorized comment No Comments »

Trois Crayons Original 8321 LROn Friday I met two very special people—Melanie and Julie Cherrier—sisters and partners in Trois Crayons , a Montreal company specializing in custom greeting cards. Three years ago, Melanie, Creative Director and original founder, bought out her two partners.  Julie stepped in as a stop gap measure to help her older sister through the transition. It worked so well that Julie is now a full partner and Director of Business Development.

Their product is striking—beautiful designs by Melanie and flawless embossed printing. What is more striking though is their relationship. They truly love working together and it shows in the way they finish each other’s sentences and laugh together.

Melanie is most proud of the quality of their product and the way they treat their clients,

Every card is perfect. Those with even the slightest imperfection are not used. And for our clients, we show up as ourselves, the same we are in life.  In this way, our business doesn’t ever feel like work.Trois Crayons CE039

Trois Crayons’ biggest failure came this year when they lost a major corporate banking client who traditionally relied on them for all their printed cards (i.e. Christmas, condolence, birthday etc.).  Melanie and Julie agree,

We know this decision isn’t about our designs or our service.  The financial crisis drove the bank to centralize everything with their advertising agency. We had come to count on this business so we were taken off guard.  Happily though, this wakeup call has opened an opportunity to refocus on retail which is something that really excites us. We might have missed this if we hadn’t lost the bank.

Their biggest challenge is sales.  Both Melanie and Julie have some fear of sales and this is a stumbling block to growth. Fortunately, they are open to developing their sales skills . It is the strong business owner who recognizes what she needs to work “on her business” and sets out to find it.  To create their vision of selling in the European market, having a retail operation in Quebec, and expanding offerings to include gift wrap and stationary, sales skills will certainly be needed.

The Cherrier sisters and I share a love of beautiful stationary and the art of letter writing. Melanie does a funny imitation of a an electronic greeting card and then asks me,

Do you want to send a 5 second email greeting that gets deleted or a beautiful, quality lasting gesture?

They feel very strongly that their corporate clients protect their image by sending quality and consistent messaging.  I couldn’t agree more. I just had a batch of note cards designed and printed for my own coaching business as I truly believe that nothing says thank you more effectively in business than a sincere hand written note on a beautiful card. 

I left the interview at Trois Crayons with a smile on my face and a bag full of beautiful cards.  I have already given one of them to someone important.   It was received with a big smile and a hug. That never happens when I send emails!

A portion of Trois Crayons Christmas sales proceeds are given to The Marie-Vincent Foundation in support of children who are maltreated or sexually abused.  The Foundation focuses on prevention, education and support to those who have been mistreated and their families.

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A Fearful Finch Flies From the Nest

September 17th, 2009 in Uncategorized comment No Comments »

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This is a departure, dear reader, from my usual topics of business, coaching and a side of tango.  It is with great delight, that I break tradition and share with you a Dr. Seuss style poem instead.

Image from Wikipedia

Image from Wikipedia

This poem is very dear to me as it was written by a special client I have been coaching after I read her “Oh the Places You’lll Go” by Dr. Suess during a coaching session. I don’t typically read Dr. Suess to my clients but Danielle is lyrical and creative and the moment called for the famous rhymes of the dear doc.

The poem’s author is Danielle Babineau. She has given me permission to share her poem and her name. I would not  divulge such private information otherwise.  She will be famous some day.  She doesn’t believe it yet though I believe it to be true.    Oh the places she will go!

Share her poem to the fearful finches in your life.  Reach out to her at www.livelovely.ca  She’s as lovely as the name suggests.

 

Fearful Finch

By Danielle Babineau 2009

Woe is me, I’m ten times three,

And don’t know what to do!
I’m stuck upon a branch, you see,

And my feet are fixed in glue.

 

The sun may rise, the sun may set,

But here I sit and sit,

I just keep on sitting, as if I’m knitting,

Yet, I’m quite fed up with it.

 

My tree is old, my branch is small,

The view is dull and bare,

Yet others tell me, I’m very lucky,

To have a tree to share.

 

“Others,” they tell me, “have not a twig

To sit upon all day!

“You should be thankful to have a branch

You should not dismay!”

 

So here I sit on my prickly branch,

And do my best to sort,

The bugs, the leaves,

While shooting the breeze,

And dreaming to, in short:

 

Leave my tree for greener palms,

Leave the other birds behind.

Soar to greater heights and feel the sun,

And no longer be entwined.

 

Yet, when I start to contemplate,

This daring proud endeavour,

I soon turn pale, “What if I fail?”

And crouch back on my branch forever.

 

 I cannot see the ground from here,

It is far too dark and black,

And once I leave my safe wee branch,

I’m afraid I can never come back!

 

Afraid to leap, too scared to jump

Into that deep unknown,

What if cactus needles, or long horned beetles

Await with crocodiles full-grown~!

 

What if I fall flat, making one huge ‘SPLAT”

Upon the cold hard ground?!

What if monsters, ghouls or taxmen come

Demanding my flesh – one pound!?

 

It’s safer to stay and serve those

Who dwell on nicer leaves,

I’d rather count their grubs each day

Than take the chance to leave.

 

No one notices this little finch

Nestled on her tiny twig,

No, no one sees her pretty plumes,

No one gives a fig.

 

I’m all curled up, my wings held tight

Motionless as a rock.

But, all of sudden, I’ve had enough

And at last I let myself drop.

 

From the branch, my feet uncoil

And down the rabbit hole I fall.

The bark above looks somewhat bleak

And I’m glad to be far from it all.

 

The beaks above tweet “Where are you going?”

To that I cannot reply.

But since I’ve dropped, I must concede

I’m going somewhere in the sky.

 

I’m tumbling down and down

And wonder will it ever end?

Will the creepy crawlies get me?

Do I die at three times ten?

 

I cover my eyes and wait for the big KA-THUMP!

It no doubt will arrive.

But as I peak from beneath my feathers

The speed has ceased from the dive.

 

Wait a minute! The drop has stopped!
I’m floating in mid-air!

Holy cow, I’m still alive!

I’m flying! I declare.

 

I can feel the warmest sun,

The wind that helps my flight,

I’ve never felt so delightfully free,

I’ve never felt so light!

 

My rainbow wings are now stretched tip to tip.

I’m soaring in the sky,

Why I hadn’t taken this leap much sooner,

I will simply never know why.

What's a Coach Buffet Anyway?

September 8th, 2009 in Uncategorized comment No Comments »

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I have been dropping hints all summer about a new coaching concept my friend and colleague Tanya Geisler and I have been developing.  So it is with great joy and anticipation that I let the proverbial cat out of the bag. The “cat” is a concept called Coach Buffet and it’s coming soon to a city near you…well, if you live in Montreal or Toronto, Canada, that is. 

On October 15th, we will host Coach Buffet in Montreal followed by Coach Buffet Toronto on November 17th.  I could leave you to research it it on your own but I am far too enthused to let you go so quickly. 

CoachBuffetThe bottom-line version is that Coach Buffet is an innovative event that is designed to bring a dozen powerful life and business coaches together with participants for meaningful one-on-one coaching conversations in a social evening format.

Coach Buffet is ideal for professionals and business owners who feel stuck in some aspect of business, career or life in general and who are looking for possibilities.

For Montreal, our line up of coaches is extraordinary (by mid September, you can read all their bios on the site) and our venue is exquisite.  I can assure you that powerful coaching will take place and strong relationships will form. As we say at Coach Buffet:

We are serving possibility….Are you hungry??

Limited spaces for Montreal. Click here to register for Montreal

Limited spaces for Toronto. Click here to register for Toronto

Risk/Reward: The Entrepreneur's R&R Series- Bare Organics

September 1st, 2009 in Uncategorized comment No Comments »

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Many a business is born of a passion that has commercial possibilities.  For Karen Kerk-Courtney, giving birth to her first child Ben in 2004 intensified her passion for healthy living. And when she couldn’t pronounce any of the ingredients listed on the hospital baby wash container (some of them 26 letters long!), she decided in that instant to clean Ben with water alone and committed to finding healthier alternatives.  

So, you could say that her business was born with her baby though it took two years of extensive research and recipe creation before Bare Organics was officially launched in November of 2006.KKC kids

For Karen, Bare Organics represents the ideal of what we all need to move toward—reducing over-consumption of unnecessary personal care products, making informed purchasing decisions and choosing all-natural, organic skin and baby care products. 

Did you know that 60% of what you put on your skin can get absorbed into your bloodstream and that babies and children are especially susceptible? asks Karen.

Karen is proud to have created products people look for and are happy to use.

Like most bright and ambitious business owners, Karen says that hardest part of her business is finding enough time.

 Everything takes 4 times as long as I imagine. Nonetheless, I am finally developing a schedule for manufacturing and packing and starting to carve out planning time but it’s orders that pay the bills so that is always the priority.

About six months ago, having reached a saturation point, Karen hired a business coach  to help her see her blind spots and to hold her accountable to taking the business to the next level.  She’s pleased with the work they have accomplished so far.

What’s been easier than she would have thought is fitting “family into business” and “business into family”.  Even Liam, her 2.5 year old, speaks about Bare Organics when he’s with her on business errands.

Pursuing the development of an organic clothing line for kids turned out to be her biggest failure and her greatest lesson to date.  She invested in large quantities of simple unbleached fabrics and production only to find that a competitor was offering much cuter fabrics and styles. She hadn’t done any market research and she paid for it. Fortunately, she recognized her mistake early enough and pulled the plug before she got in too deep.

Three years in, the next steps for Bare Organics are to get full organic certification (an involved and expensive process), launch a new brand and expand the retail base. Karen doesn’t hesitate when I ask what she needs most:KKC award photo

What Bare Organics needs most right now is cash for new product development and the organic certification process. 

So any angel investor with a penchant for a healthier planet and healthier people can contact Karen to discuss how an investment can create an even healthier bottom line on many fronts.    

As I write, my face is enjoying the natural oils of Bare Organics Serum  and my legs are soaking up the moisture from Bare Organics Natural Massage Bar . While I have never been one to over-do it on beauty products, I am very drawn to the simplicity of a few quality natural products for all my needs. And knowing the woman and the story behind the brand made my purchasing decision very easy!

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